Every day I am more and more annoyed by the way some of the blogs I have followed for years have started to āget with the timesā or ācatch upā on using those ātoolsā to āimproveā their blogging in one way or another.
I donāt even want to use those two letters, or the more appropiate three-letter acronym, because honestly, it annoys me to even type it out at this point. What a pain.
Iāll share some things that shouldnāt need to be said, but in just in case, hereās what a personal website does not need:
- Perfect grammar.
- Up to date posts.
- Links to everything it talks about.
- Clear structure.
- Posts with catchy titles.
- Fancy thumbnails or images.
- Perfect āSEOā.
Sure, editing is okay, rewording is okay, humans make mistakes, humans can correct those mistakes. If you are too lazy to correct a mistake, just leave it there then, itās your blog, you write what you want and skip the rest.
I could go through every point here but it all boils down to the same thing. Just express yourself.
I admit I fell for these new and āinnovativeā technologies at some point, thereās even a blogpost I did years ago thatās barely written by me. I refuse to delete it for the sake of posterity, but I also wonāt link it because itās kind of cringe. Other than that, these words are mine, this is my voice.
Since we are at it, hereās what I like to find in a personal website:
- Your unique experience and view of life.
- Harmless grammar mistakes.
- Misstyped urls.
- Incomplete sentences.
- Multiple posts about the same thing.
- Drafts published by accident.
- Vague titles that have nothing to do with the topic.
- Honest and human thoughts.
Thereās nothing wrong with wanting to have something a little bit more proper or elegant, there is tooling out there that has allowed for that to be possible for decades now. Tools to help you write and edit your posts properly without having to rely on those things. And even if there were not, how is it that books have been a thing for hundreds of years. handwritten, printed, whatever, all of it was done by a real person.
Maybe itās slow and tedious, maybe it takes more manual effort, maybe itās the āboring partā that you donāt like. Other than accessibilityāand I still have my doubts about how truly accessible this isāit mostly boils down to putting in the effort.
There are, maybe, valid reasons for it all. I am not really unfollowing those that use it, like some others have, but I canāt get the feeling out of my head, that I am no longer reading a human sometimes, and that they are mostly excusing themselves, precisely because at least thereās a feeling there, that itās wrong.
Regardless of what you do, on this website, itās just me, here and now. Me and my dumb takes and opinions, my rambles about nothing and my thoughts on things everyone has mentioned before, but it doesnāt really matter does it? Because I am the one writing. Helplessly human, helplessly unpolished, imperfect and wrong, but documenting it all because itās just fun for me.
Like, look at this post, itās kind of ugly, it sounds like Iām bragging, and I hate that, Iām not doing anything special, itās just another blogpost out of the hundreds of blogposts Iāve done, out of the hundreds of millions of articles written by humans.
So, yeah, write your own words, or donāt, you are entitled to doāor avoid doingāwhatever you wish.
What I want, however, is to read you.












